“Oops, I mean- what’s a ‘doola’?”
Part of being a doula includes correcting people on the pronunciation and spelling of the word, as well as running into someone who wants a full breakdown of what exactly it is that I do on an almost weekly basis.
DOULA, pronounced doo-lah, which explains why it is so commonly misspelled, is a labour and birth support person. Simply put, a doula takes care of all the non-medical needs that can arise during pregnancy, birth and the postpartum period and she tends to the mother and the new family so they are supported emotionally, and physically.
The word doula is of Greek origin, and loosely translated means female slave, although the word is also derived from the Greek word for work. It has evolved and changed throughout the years, and continues to change as our culture of birth changes as well. It can even mean different things to different people, although the essence stays the same.
Here in Montreal, doulas are used by women and families who are looking for some extra emotional support, reassurance, guidance and hands-on support at their birth. There can be a disconnect between a woman and her medical care and, due to the nature of our healthcare system, there is not much time for discussing “feelings” and little to no talk about how to prepare for birth, what to expect and how to cope with all the challenges. Someone preparing for a natural birth may hire a doula for the invaluable support and experience she brings to the birth, by helping with physical support and encouragement. A doula offers continuity of care, along with professional and compassionate support.
That’s why you should hire a doula. Trained and experienced support from someone like me who has been there, has done the reading and the research and can be a guide through the confusion, the unknown, the emotional rollercoaster and the highs and lows of labour, birth and the postpartum can be exactly what a couple needs.
Have you been thinking of hiring a doula? I’d love to hear your thoughts!
